There is a difference between sexual desire and the fundamental biological human need for love, intimacy, affection, and companionship.
A woman who has experienced marriage, motherhood, and sexual relationships for over 20 years may eventually choose to move beyond those experiences and focus on other priorities. That is her choice, and it deserves respect.
But what about a single, unmarried woman who has never had the same opportunities to experience love, intimacy, and physical closeness? Iam referring to biological sexual needs?
Please do not tell me that a woman who has been married for 20 years, the one who experienced motherhood, and had decades of opportunities for sex and intimacy has achieved professional success by sacrificing her biological needs.
Forgive me, but I think I deserve a better joke than that.
Women’s biological needs are often tamed through social conditioning, shame, marital expectations, professional dependency, and the pressure to put everyone else’s needs before their own.
Some women are taught that their biological needs must be controlled to preserve a relationship, protect their reputation, or secure their career. Others are expected to sacrifice their personal lives to prove that they are serious about their careers.
I am not asking for the freedom to pursue biological desire at the expense of career.
I am asking for the freedom to experience love, intimacy, and physical closeness as a woman who has chosen a different path in life.
My biological timeline is my own. My mother's menopause at 54 does not guarantee that I will experience the same.
A woman's life cannot be reduced to her marital status, and her biological needs should not become a bargaining chip in her professional life.
I should not have to give up new friendships, emotional connections, or the possibility of experiencing love in exchange for a job opportunity. Employment should be based on professional competence, experience, and merit—not on a woman's willingness to sacrifice her personal life.
An equal-opportunity employer should recognize that women have different life experiences, circumstances, and aspirations. Not every woman is a wife or a mother. Not every woman has had the same opportunities for love and intimacy. And no woman should be expected to suppress her personal aspirations to prove her professional worth.
The max i could ever do is to move away from the man who is the sexual desire of the mother of 20 year old, dont expect me to do anything beyond that.
And I do not have to sacrifice my humanity to prove my ambition.
Yes, I am ambitious, and my ambition should never be mistaken for insecurity. Please do not assume that my pursuit of professional opportunities is driven by insecurity about someone who could potentially be my romantic or sexual partner.
For four years since 2022, I have not encountered anyone who carried that same energy that i carry, someone i met two months ago. Iam a Virgin. I always wanted to date a divine man - I want to savour those quiet, beautiful moments every drop of his sperm deep inside my throat when affection turns into divine and not desire.
Raw Biological needs are divine - anything thats added on top of it is desire.
Every drop is divine.
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At the same time iam Ambitious .....
I want to make million-dollar decisions at work. I want to travel around the world just like how i have travelled Japan, Singapore, Hongkong, China, Indonesia, UAE, UK......between 2010 and 2020...
I want to build wealth, advance my career, and date the man I love.
I am asking for the same opportunity that everyone else deserves: the opportunity to work, earn a living, build a career, and make my own choices about my personal life and to date the man i love.
If i have connected with you it is because somewhere at the bottom of my heart i still feel that this is an Equal Opportunity Employer.
I never felt ashamed to fight for my rights. Give me the opportunity...
Stop telling me the stories of a mother of 20 year old who gave up her biological needs for a successful career... Thats a Bull Shit ! Dear Men - Do you even realise that ?
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