And I choose myself !

My battle?
Who I am vs. Who I'm expected to be.

I’ve made my choices—In love. In career. In life. My Choices define - Who Iam !
But each time, society not only dismissed my choice, they replaced it with their own expectations.

I loved a man not for his wealth, but for his soul. But my choice was not only dismissed, i was bullied and mocked, I chose career with passion. But my choice dismissed ! 

And then came the proposals— A man I didn’t connect with.
A career path that had nothing to do with my purpose. No alignment. No relevance.
Just expectations dressed up as “opportunity.”

And when I refused. They called me A Failure! Unwilling to change ?

Change for what? They’re asking me to give up my career? My calling? My self?
What if a woman asked a man to do the same?
To give up his career, his vision, his purpose—for her comfort?
And what if he says NO ? Would you call him a Failure ?

"If you don’t question a man for choosing his career over a woman,
why do you shame a woman for choosing her career over a man she doesn’t even connect with ?"

Woman Empowerment is not about how much a woman gives up and sacrifice—It’s about what she’s free to choose.

Iam not here to sacrifice ! So don’t come to me with expectations.
Come to me with respect or dont come at all.

My story embodies this fight—more than the battle for love or career, it is the battle for the right to choose without apology.

I may not do the work of four people—
But I don’t want the crown that comes from losing myself to sacrifice.

My power doesn’t come from sacrifice. It comes from choice.
My choices are my strength. That’s what empowers me.

I am not defined by what others expect.
I am empowered by what I choose.

I chose Myself ! 

"I can live my entire life without a man if I cannot find my true self — and that is my choice. I appreciate and expect society to respect that. Women’s empowerment isn’t about sacrifice. It is about the freedom to choose."