Iam not your Shame !

Stop shaming women just because they had a breakup or because they are single.

Too often, men see woman's vulnerability and mistake it for an invitation or availability.

Iam not your SHAME ! I’m sorry, I am not your reflection.

A woman does not owe you her heart just because she once lost it with someone else.

She does not need to enter a new story just to erase the pain of the old one.

Too many women, under the weight of shame, go on to choose less than they deserve just to prove they still matter.

I had a heart break in 2014 and you know what i did !

I went into the Enoshima Sea in Japan. I swam for hours, under the open sky, letting the waves carry what my heart could no longer hold.
I stayed in the water, sun-bathing, swimming — free.

Pics from 2014 !

But that’s all - I did not put on a mask to become someone else only to have someone walk besides me on the beach !

Because no loss, no person, no silence is worth abandoning my SELF.

Because I am the author of my own.

In 2016, I fell for a man from Bengaluru—a dream that faded before it began, like Ariel watching a ship disappear into the sea from the movie - The Little Mermaid. 

In 2017, I met someone from Singapore. He had power, yes, but it was his humility—and his quiet respect for me and the man I once loved—that moved me. It wasn’t about romance. It was a sacred moment of recognition, like seeing my truest self reflected in another.

But a woman’s desire is too often misread. Two men—one from Delhi, another from Hyderabad—twisted my truth into ambition. They mocked my longing.

Stop forcing women to believe in stories that belong to you and yourself.
Iam not your SHAME !
I’m sorry, but I am not your reflection.

In searching for connection, I didn’t just lose love. I lost my voice, my peace, and almost… myself.
Yes, it hurt. But I let go. I rise. I keep going.
That’s all.

Because I cannot — and will not — abandon my SELF to be with someone who doesn’t reflect my worth. Settling for someone just to fill the silence?
That’s not my standard.

Enough of Bullying ; Shaming and  Mocking ; 

Losing love doesn’t make a woman less.
Mocking our pain doesn’t make a man more.

And if life tests me again — if the person I see a spark of myself in, the one with DEI fire and depth,
ever walks away — I’m still ready.

I’ll wear my bikini. I’ll go to the beach alone. I’ll swim, cry, soak in the salt and sun.
And I’ll come back stronger.

Iam also ready for it !

In true love, there is no attachment—because there is no separation.
Attachment arises only when you feel apart—when the other is not your self.

But I will never, ever abandon my SELF. Not for anyone. Not in this life.
Not even for love. Because I know who I am.
And I don’t trade my truth for company.

Women are not something to be traded, tested, or negotiated with.
We are not deals to be made — we are lives to be respected.

“Auron se kya, khud hi se puch lenge raahen...”

“Khud hi to hai hum kinare” — it holds such quiet strength, like someone who has finally realized they are their own safe harbour.

This is my Reality !

Find out the name of the Heroine in the Movie - That is what Iam !

That is my Story !

DEI Enthu...“Khud hi to hai hum kinare”. What is the meaning of losing Virginity ?

But this heart—this ziddi dil—
Refuses to bow.
I loved. I hoped. I lost. I lived.
And I will not apologize for my fire.
I am not your version of me.
I am my own—voice, longing, rise, fall, rise again.