When Power Turns Predatory !

When Power Turns Predatory !

​If you believe that everything in life happens naturally and advocate for unwavering faith in these events, it might indicate a limited exposure to life's hardships and a lack of understanding of power dynamics. This perspective could also suggest a tendency to overlook or remain passive in the face of powerful individuals, potentially allowing injustices to persist unchallenged.

Sometimes, it's a quiet misuse of power — disguised as opportunity, and justified with phrases like: “Things are unfolding as they should.”

In 2018, I was unmarried — and I still am. I was, and continue to be, a virgin.
At the time in 2018,  I felt a genuine emotional connection to a man from Singapore.

Whether that connection was real or fleeting, lasting or not —
it was my personal journey. Not something to be mocked, judged, or exploited.

But some rowdies mocked me.....

My character was questioned. 

My attraction was belittled. 

“You loved him just because he gave you a project?”
“If I give you a project, you should sleep with me.”

That’s not flirtation. That’s not misunderstanding.
That is harassment — a deliberate misuse of power to control and manipulate.

And when I didn’t comply, they took control of the situation ; 

This wasn’t natural unfolding. It was orchestrated.

They withheld my rights to orchestrate a situation  that was favourable to them and then call it natural unfolding !

Sir - I studied law of 5 years  !

Faith is earned and it is not given !

Let’s pause for a moment and consider  that the situation was truly natural, not manipulated.
What would a respectable man do in this natural unfolding ? They would offer the role to the woman,  without interference, or control over who she chooses to date. 

Conversely, those who manipulated circumstances for personal gain revealed their own character flaws.

Such behavior reflects an abuse of power and a lack of integrity. 

This is rowdyism ! 

Lets stop dressing exploitation as destiny.

That’s not destiny. That’s bias.
And that’s rowdyism, plain and simple.

Time to stop sugarcoating exploitation  using spiritual words like Natural Unfolding !