This was and is the System !

So, they couldn’t negotiate with me—guess what? I’m still a virgin, and I’m proud of it! 💪 

In 2015, when I returned to India, I never imagined the journey that would unfold in the following years. In 2017, I found myself drawn to a man from Singapore. Little did I know that society would interfere with my personal dating choice or my body.

In 2018, some men went as far as undermining not just my character but also my professional skills just because I rejected them and chose Singapore. Honestly, what gives any man the authority to interfere in my dating choices that are mine alone?  Their sense of entitlement was overwhelming, as if my independence was something to be threatened.

After blocking the man Iam interested to date ; as if my helplessness is some sort of triumph for him, he laughs. That laughter cuts deep—it’s not just mockery; it’s a reminder of the power he believes he holds on a single unmarried woman. It’s a reflection of how he sees the autonomy of a single unmarried woman as something he can control.

This reflects a broader issue of how single women, can be disrespected and treated as if their choices are open to manipulation. 

The whole experience, painful as it was, became my catalyst for self-discovery. By 2021, I found myself on a journey of resilience, self-reliance, and empowerment.

I was determined to recreate the scene, not just to prove my character and talent, but also to highlight how some cheap men, interfere in the dating choices of single woman and  harass them. Even today they go as far as blocking any man who shows interest in me. 

Breaking my dating choice was not the problem - but that laugh he made as if my helplessness is some sort of triumph was my problem.

I recreated the scene with someone who showed me compassion, even amidst false accusations. To me, that energy felt as divine and comforting as my father’s protective presence. I never sought protection from the universe, yet it felt as though it was bestowed upon me, unasked and unconditionally.

The whole experience turned out to be a huge success, not only proving my character but also showcasing my talent. It was my chance to expose how some men use their assumed "dick power" to control harass and manipulate single women and her dating choices. Honestly, what gives any man the authority to interfere in my dating choices that are mine alone? Is it because iam Single ?

Even the size of an apple is governed by nature. If its weight increases, it will inevitably fall due to gravitational force. Every individual must realize that their POWER cannot grow by disregarding the principles of nature.

This entire situation highlights how, on two separate occasions, the same group of men tried to manipulate and interfere with my personal dating choices. What right do they have to impose themselves on choices that are mine alone to make? 

Using power to control a single woman’s dating choices is not strength; it’s cowardice disguised as Victory.

Yesterday, it was Mr. Singapore. Today, it’s the DEI Enthusiast. Tomorrow, it could be Mr. XYZ. Yet, the pattern will remain unchanged—these cheap men will constantly finds ways to control my dating choices. This has been my reality, my experience.  This is how the system treats - The Single Unmarried Woman ! 

Hey but dont confuse drama with women empowerment. 
Enter the drama queen, the self-proclaimed “storm in the skin,” who, with her trusty Godfather BPO, managed to get her ex (yep, the one who will be her ex forever) to lock his social media Instagram profile. Bravo, what a power move! 👏 But here’s the plot twist: the moment he unlocks it, her panties might spontaneously combust, and she’ll sprint back to testing and BPO...🏃‍♀️🔥🥳

Women Empowerment? Maybe not. Pure comedy gold? Absolutely. 😂

Now, we all need a good laugh at the end of the year, right? 😂

The success achieved by  women in a phallogocentric system is often attributed to patriarchal systems that selectively elevate those women whose thinking aligns closely with traditional male norms, thereby creating a facade of equal opportunity.