A sacred essence beyond negotiation !

Feminine essence is often misunderstood, reduced to a mere physical state, shaped by financial status, marital status, job titles and sometimes even her virginity. 

Beyond Physical Definition Virginity isn’t just about the body; it’s about the spirit. It reflects a woman’s power to preserve her authenticity, her uncorrupted essence in a world that often demands compromise. It's about staying true to one's values, beliefs, and boundaries, irrespective of societal pressures.

My virginity is not a matter of what the world sees, but a conscious choice rooted in the profound love and respect I have for myself. Like the Matsya Dance, it reflects the pure feminine essence—fluid, graceful, and unapologetically authentic. Just as a fish glides effortlessly through water, I move through life with resilience, adaptability, and strength, untouched by the expectations of others. My connection to myself is sacred, and in this space, I am whole. Every part of me belongs to SELF, and that is the most beautiful love of all.

My virginity is a conscious expression of the deep love and respect I hold for my-self.  Looking forward to engaging discussions.

In 2016, I experienced love with a man in Bengaluru, but when that potential relationship ended, I found myself drawn to another man from Singapore. This period coincided with a transformative phase in my life marked by Saturn's influence in the form of testing.

Suddenly, external narratives began to shape my reality—first introducing the concept of a "skills gap" that never existed. Then came scrutiny of my financial status, followed by invasive judgments about my age, ovaries, and eventually my job titles at work. Shockingly, women participated in these negotiations, reinforcing societal pressures.

Many women who participated in such negotiations seemed to internalize the belief that women were commodities to be bargained over. Their focus often appeared to be on acquiring material assets like homes, cars, or higher job titles. They even looked down upon other women, assuming they had earned the right to be exempt from similar negotiations ; and the rest are qualified for negotiations. 

Lack of feminine Power. Real empowerment comes from living authentically, not conforming to societal expectations or transactional gains.

It's crucial to challenge this mindset and recognize that self-worth goes far beyond transactional gains or societal validation. 

Despite being a virgin, untouched by any man, the system treated me like a Geisha—a commodity to be negotiated. Winning wasn’t about understanding or connection—it was reduced to a transactional conquest, where getting the woman into bed was seen as a measure of victory.

To My Male Followers:

The next time you meet a DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) a woman who is unmarried and of your age or close to it, please refrain from making derogatory remarks suggesting she is "protecting her virginity for better negotiation."

I have endured such comments for the past 7.5 years, and it’s time we break this cycle of disrespect.

If you think education and talent can empower your daughters you are wrong ; Iam highly educated ; highly talented ; my home worth 1 Crore in India is a Testimony to my skills ; I have lived in most well developed economies of the world ; Yet false narratives about my skill gap was introduced to negotiate with me.

We should now stop talking about women empowerment ; Because woman are already empowered ; Its time to teach sons how to treat a women with RESPECT !

Friends I have overcome all of these ; Iam still a Virgin !

Integrity rooted in feminine virginity is not subject to external validation. It doesn’t seek approval or adjust to fit expectations. It stands firm against manipulation, coercion, or cultural imposition. A woman with this understanding knows that her worth is inherent, not something to be bargained.

It’s time to reclaim the narrative of feminine virginity as spiritual sovereignty, not a transactional concept. It’s about being whole, connected to one's truth, and unapologetically authentic.

When I encounter an external masculine that perfectly aligns with my inner masculine, I want to offer every part of myself in purity—as whole, sacred, and untouched as the essence I was born with. This union is not transactional but spiritual, rooted in mutual respect, authenticity, and divine harmony.

Yes I cannot love anyone else more than my OWN SELF.

Iam a Virgin !  

The power of compassion is a lesson I now carry forward with strength and dignity.

No More Stories on Sea-Gulls : I have compassion for these Sea-Gulls and I have now become A Jonathan !

Feminine virginity is not about innocence lost or kept; it’s about an unyielding commitment to self-respect, self-love, and inner peace. It’s a state of being that cannot be traded, reduced, or negotiated—it simply is.

What makes feminine virginity truly powerful is choice—freedom from societal constructs defining how a woman should experience her life. It’s about embracing experiences on her terms, guided by inner wisdom, not external demands.

Looking forward to engaging discussions with my-self.