Safety is Mine to Own !

Ladies, you know the drill—first, they try to sell you safety and protection like it's a limited edition handbag. "Hey, I can keep you safe from the big bad world!" they say. And suddenly, your self-worth is tied to how well they can shield you from society, as if your entire existence revolves around their one-man security system. And there are women who agree with these men. (Sorry, ladies, no collecting points for ‘safety’ or ‘romance’ here.) True safety is earned—by your own self-respect, trust, and knowing that no one can ever take it from you.

True safety isn’t about a man protecting me from the world; it's about how safe I feel in his presence—how secure I feel from him as a person - and that is mine to own. 

Exactly! At its core, safety means respect—he won't touch me, emotionally or physically, without my clear and enthusiastic permission.

It's about knowing you're valued, that your boundaries are honoured, and that you're safe to be yourself without fear of violation or pressure.

If you want to steal safety and protection, you’ll have to steal it from me—not from the man. It’s mine to own, and no one can touch it.

And that, my friend, is the real romance. Through it all, I’ve come to embrace a deeper truth: we are, indeed, what we seek.



No one can sell Safety to me or steal it from me — it’s my fortress!
The idea that safety can be bought or sold is not only misguided but disrespectful to women, who deserve to feel secure not through transactional means, but through respect, understanding, and self-empowerment. Safety is not something that needs to be provided by men.

If you think your male army  can steal safety and protection from my hands and hand it over into your hands  : Give it a Try ; Its a Self-Possessed feeling and It is Mine to Own.






Commodification of safety often happens within marriage, where it becomes linked to external validation and societal expectations. If you find that you cannot live without commodifying safety, it may be a sign that you need to revisit the foundation of your married life and reconnect with your legal partner. Stop supporting Men who are selling safety like a Limited Edition Handbag.

So, try all you want, but you can’t take my safety from me. It’s mine, and it’s rooted deep in who I am.

Safety is Mine to Own ! 
Looking forward to an Interaction !








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