I dont want that Free T Shirt !

Ever seen a divorced woman whose skin looks like it’s been through a tornado (storm), yet she’s showering her kids with love? It’s like, “Yeah, I love you, but how do I love a kid whose father I married just for that sweet U.S. job or for his bank balance or for my own better career?” 😂 It’s like getting attached to that free T-shirt that came with a gym membership you never wanted.

While this story might not resonate as much in South India, it definitely hits home for many North Indian women who are pressured into marrying a man for his bank balance or job title. In those cases, it’s all too relatable.

Sure, the T-shirt’s comfy and you wear it often, but do you have to deal with the whole gym commitment that comes with it too? 😅 Do you love your kids ?

These are woman who have been there and got the T-Shirt ! I dont want to be one of them.





Somewhere along the line, men have been led to believe that all women come with built-in clocks that tick louder as we age. The more candles on the cake, the closer we are to morphing into an ovary-obsessed countdown machine.🎂🔔

Yes, biology is real, but not all women are sitting in front of an actual clock going, 
“Okay, by 5:00 PM next Thursday, I need to secure myself a father for my future children,” 
More often than not, we’re planning for movies, not labour.

So, guys, while you’re busy imagining us dreaming about strollers and nursery décor, we’re probably just  finally finishing our chai while it’s still hot! 

And let’s be honest, it’s impossible for any woman to love the baby of a man she married just for his bank balance or a career.

Honestly, I don’t want a gym membership just because I’m getting a T-shirt for free.

I’m out here craving delicious food, uninterrupted naps, thriving careers, and Wi-Fi that doesn’t buffer! Babies? Sure, they’re adorable, but so are kittens.

I’m just saying, I’ll take a cuddle with that divine suckling kitten over a toddler tantrum any day! 😻
#perspective #integrity #selfbelief





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