Men's Mental Health Awareness Month

Dear Men ;

Admit you suck at something ; Set your Boundaries ;

Women can either embrace and help men walk across the tightrope, or we can be the ones who push them off.

Cheers to all those Men who have braved to bring Men's Mental Health Awareness into Visibility on Social Media. Yes June is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month !

No More Mr. Nice Guy is a self-help book written by Dr. Robert Glover, first published in 2003.

Among Men ;

Vulnerability = Being perceived as Weak.

Shame Attack = The fear of being Weak = Not being Wealthy Enough or Powerful Enough !

Recently, I witnessed a DEI woman (skin with a storm) who is financially secure and separated, was mocking a man (story teller) considering dating a woman like myself, from a middle-class background. She launched a shame attack, mocking that he would have to fill her bank account with dollars if he considers to date a middle class woman.

Was this bullying or shame attack directed at unmarried single women like myself, or was she mocking and bullying the financial status of the man ?

Dear Men ;

To Stir the Pot - I responded to the attack humorously, joking that I would give a blowjob to my partner to gain access to his credit card. I received strange responses to my statement ; One of them which came from training hr dick head is worth sharing - "Story teller does not want to date a successful woman like skin with a storm he wants to date a failure (myself)".

This incident exemplifies a typical male shame attack. Often, many men build emotional walls and wear masks, projecting a tough exterior. They're expected to simply grin and bear it when faced with criticism or insensitive remarks.

A Foolish Question :

Why do upper class women want to date a middle class man who she thinks cannot afford her a luxurious date ? Its rather a FUNNY question !

How to be RESILIENT to this kind of SHAME ATTACK / BULLY ?

Stone Age instincts still plays a significant role today. Historically, women relied on men's strength—physically, financially, and emotionally. Despite our modern world's evolution, these deep-seated stone age instincts, developed over 200,000 years, continue to influence society. However : These deep seated stone age instincts continue to exist only among the Upper Class who have not contributed to the civilization like the Middle Class !

Vulnerability will turn into STRENGTH when you understand that these stone age beliefs exists only among upper class and not in middle class ;

The Upper Class may force you to believe in this stone age tradition - But no one will be in a position to use them against you if you stop believing into these stone age traditions.

For Example : Today i own a property which is my SWEAT ; and i dont think these woman who bully me have been able to earn 1/10th of what i have earned in the last 20 Years ! Thats the ABSOLUTE REALITY which the NATION cannot DENY.

And this is TRUE with every INDIAN MIDDLE CLASS (Men or Women)

You don't have to live a lesser version of yourself out of fear of others' opinions or judgments.

Let's explore how men are subjected to shame attacks in the context of power dynamics.

Do you believe that you will lose your promotion only because you dumped your ex and your ex is outmaneuvering you with the POWER of your boss ?

Toxic Masculinity often loves fake vulnerability from a woman because it feeds their EGO.

A lot of women PRETEND to be vulnerable to manipulate men into providing protection or favours.

This is pretty commonly observed in upper class women.

True vulnerability, however, is an honorable pursuit that fosters self-defense skills.

Vulnerability that is aimed at getting people to sleep with you is FAKE ;

Example : Flashing a Bosom ; Its like showing a wound to get what they want !

How to become RESILIENT with this kind of Bullying and Shame Attacks ?

Here is a Therapy to unpack your experiences and make sense of it !

Just as we approach our yoga mats, ready to attempt new poses knowing we might stumble, the same principle applies. The essence of true vulnerability lies in being willing to accept the consequences, whatever they may be (Negative or Positive).

Genuine Vulnerability = Consciously Choosing not to HIDE your Emotions. It can mean placing yourself in a situation where you risk rejection.

Story Teller :

TRUE Vulnerability will teach you SELF-DEFENSE !

Stick to your VALUES regardless of OUTCOME !

Remember that above the Human Law lies the Law of NATURE !

Believe in YOUR SELF !

DONT GIVE UP !

Cheer Up My Friend !

I dedicate this song to you in this Mens Mental Health Awareness Month !

You are the driver of Indian Economy ; The only difference between you and an upper class is that they do it without VALUES and you do it with VALUES !

AND THATS ALL !

The Changed India !

Today women are capable of not only supporting a man Financially, Emotionally and Mentally ; they are capable of protecting a Man Physically !

I have learnt Martial Arts for SELF-DEFENSE AND PROTECTION !

So, here's the deal: if you're thinking about messing with me, just remember, I've got some serious punches and kicks up my sleeve now. And trust me, they're not just for show anymore!

My Physical Punch is more POWERFUL than the above EMOTIONAL PUNCH !

So my dear Friends !

My father passed away in 2008, But I never felt like an orphan. However, in March 2018, a career decision was made for me without my involvement or consent. I got trapped into a dirty filthy system which does not know how to handle DEI. Certain individuals assumed a guardianship role over my professional life with a guarantee of PROTECTION without consulting me, which ironically left me feeling even more isolated, akin to being treated like an orphan.

Consequently,
I opted for EXCLUSION ! Atleast in this LIFE iam not going to connect back with any of the BASTARDS of this system for SURE with exception (Story Teller).

DEI = Having a Seat at the TABLE for decision making !