Surviving Shame Attacks !

It takes courage to stand up to the BULLIES of life and go against the NAYSAYERS whether at work or family.

I feel like I have already become a LIFE COACH - which i believe is the PURPOSE OF MY LIFE !

A DEI who is treated with RESPECT will not have such life experiences ; being treated BADLY therefore then becomes a BLESSING !

Today we will explore how to defeat SHAME ATTACK AND BECOME AUTHENTIC !
Did anyone tried to ATTACK you claiming that you are FLAWED and not worthy of LOVE AND BELONGING ?  Let me tell you they are not worthy of your CONNECTION.

Nobody in this world is FLAWLESS !

How to defeat SHAME ATTACK ?

Here is a beautiful video from Brene Brown !

SHAME = BEING FORCED TO BELIEVE THAT IAM NOT ENOUGH :

True belonging and self-worth are not GOODS ; We dont negotiate our SELF-WORTH with the world.

I can negotiate a CONTRACT with you ; 

I can negotiate a TOPIC with you ;

Iam not going to Negotiate my SELF-WORTH  with you ! 

I have survived the BULLIES who kept me small through SHAME ATTACK.

Dont walk with the WORLD looking for EVIDENCE that you DONT BELONG  - Because you are ALWAYS GOING TO FIND IT !

Dont walk with the WORLD looking for EVIDENCE that YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH  - Because you are ALWAYS GOING TO FIND IT !

And ; Once I find EVIDENCE ;

I may FIT-IN for YOU....the SOCIETY ; 

But I may not BELONG TO MYSELF !

And Iam not READY to BETRAY MYSELF !