In Buddhism Lotus represents :
1. Truthfulness
2. Compassion
2. Forbearance
What is Forbearance ?
Let me give you an example !
Back in Japan i wanted to date an American Boy ; we had a couple of lunch together and we finally fixed a date which never happened. The American woman in our own group who was married and who also had an extra marital affair with another man secretly followed both of us and she ensured that the DATE WAS BROKEN.
This was a CULTURE SHOCK for me !
Later i understood that this was a TYPICAL DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET which many people are born with. Perfectionism creates a SCARCITY MINDSET inside a woman which makes her INSECURE and JEALOUS !
Do you know how i RESPONDED ?
Forbearance = Tolerance !
To refrain from hurting those who have hurt us.
Forbearance in the face of ABUSE is a NOBLE CHARACTER !
Let me tell you a story of Lotus Vs Orchid !
Orchid is a Terrestrial Flower which grows on EARTH-LAND !
Have you seen woman biting her lips with her teeth and rolling her hands behind her ears - The Gesture is called as TOUCH WOOD in English !
Abundance according to this flower was SEX !
The GESTURE says it all !
Alternatively there was a LOTUS FLOWER inside a POND near by and for Lotus :
Abundance = Forbearance ; Truthfulness and Compassion !
Lotus never insulted ORCHID - Because orchid was living on EARTH and for any materialistic person who is in the PHYSICAL DIMENSION OF LIFE ; SEX AND WEALTH IS ABUNDANCE !
Iam a Virgin, still a Virgin ; but the American Boy i wanted to date with had sex with 5 women and i knew about it; I dont live in the physical dimension of life ! By the way Iam LOTUS !
These Photos were never meant to TRIGGER anyone's EGO ;
I embrace my PERSONAL JOURNEY OF SELF - DISCOVERY and i find joy in connecting with people like Story Teller who are also on their path of SELF-DISCOVERY. Thats all there is to !
Iam very confident that i won't encounter the situation that i met with in Japan once again in my life because I've developed the ability to differentiate between Individuals with a scarcity mindset (Testing Asshole) and those with an abundance mindset (Story Teller). The experience in Japan has equipped me to navigate such circumstance more effectively.
In the year 2018 because of Testing's scarcity mindset my career was damaged - Yet i dont want to give up my Journey and walk on his path because I LOVE MY JOURNEY !
The love for my JOURNEY is more important than INSULTS or any COACH ! Lolz....
A true human being views all insults, slander, and physical harm as opportunities for spiritual growth and they like to cultivate DETERMINATION ; PASSION AND WISDOM !
Despite of so much work commitments and wi-fi issue that i encountered today - I wanted to write this post ! All that i have to say to each and every ORCHID FLOWER (Testing / Skin with a Storm) :
To respect another person's journey - YOU MUST FIRST LOVE YOUR OWN JOURNEY !
When you start loving your OWN JOURNEY OF SELF ; You will never attempt to force anyone on your PATH !
LEARN TO EMBRACE AND CHERISH YOUR SELF-JOURNEY !
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