A Romantic affair with Arabian Sea !

Since Jan 2022, I have been diligently working hard to recover from the financial setback i experienced between Nov 2019 and Jan 2022. My CIBIL Score reflects my struggle !

In the face of adversity, my father's journey becomes a GUIDING LIGHT, urging me forward in my pursuit of overcoming financial obstacles.

When my own financial challenges may seem significant, I recognize that they pale in comparison to the complexities my father faced. His experiences serve as a powerful source of motivation for me in navigating my own struggles. His RESILIENCE inspire me to persevere, knowing that i can draw strength from his example.

My ancestors were highly educated and skilled individuals, laying a strong foundation for our family capabilities.

My paternal grand father worked as an honest lawyer.

Both my parents were born and raised in Alappuzha.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alappuzha

Both my parents held title - PILLAI
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pillai_(Kerala_title)

My Ancestral roots are with the SHORES OF THE ARABIAN SEA and family property though vast bears the weight of meager NETWORTH owing to its COASTAL PROXIMITY.

The lullaby of Arabian Sea serenades our nights - a poignant reminder that LIFE IS IMPERMANENT.

Embracing a living devoid of SECURITY ; The relentless waves of Arabian Sea claimed many of my ancestors along with their homes and possessions, leaving an indelible mark on our history.

Despite the substantial property, economic prosperity eluded us, highlighting a stark contrast between Wealth in Sand and Poverty in Future !

My paternal grand mother passed away during my father's birth leading to my paternal grand father remarrying. When my father was 10 years old, my grand father who was a lawyer passes away. In the aftermath of a flood and storm surge, my father's step mother abandoned my father at his grand mother's place, transferring all his property in her name and departing from coastal area.

Despite of low networth of the coastal property, my father not only lost his family legacy but also the legal rights to the property he rightfully owned.

Upon reaching the age of 18 many of my family relatives advised my father to pursue legal action against my step-grand mother to secure his property rights ; However my father chose NOT TO engage in a legal dispute with his mother and willingly relinquished his legal entitlements.

In the world where anything that is slightly ambiguous is DISCOUNTED as not being of much VALUE - I can claim that ARABIAN SEA IS AN UNENDING SEA OF PASSION for me despite of all destructions.

People will LAUGH at you when you are seeing those things that are not related to PERFECTION AND SURVIVAL.

ARABIAN SEA = PASSION = THAT WHICH IS BEYOND WHAT IS SAID = A DISCOUNTED TERM IN THE NORMAL SOCIETY.

The important lesson which ARABIAN SEA taught me !

Sand created by SEA from its DEPTHS is called as ABUNDANCE !

While the Arabian Sea might have claimed all our MATERIAL POSSESIONS including the lives of loved ones, it has LIBERATED my family from the SHACKLES OF THE FEAR OF DEATH.

My Father taught me that RELATIONSHIPS and or MATERIAL POSESSIONS are like SAND HELD IN HAND. The minute you close your Hand and Squeeze to hold on, the sand trickles through your finger's. Held loosely it remains where it is !

My father taught me - ONCE YOU NEED LESS YOU WILL HAVE MORE !

The question of Assisting me in Need does not arise !

There is an experience of FINANCIAL NEED in me but i never expressed it because - Unlike a Beggar I have the power to earn MONEY !

Given the fact that i never communicated my NEEDS to anyone, it is UNFOUNDED for someone to assume that I REQUIRE ASSISTANCE !

It appears that many people like testing dick head create a FICTITIOUS FINANCIAL NEED / MATERIAL DESIRE in the other person so that they could fulfill their own SEXUAL NEEDS.

NEEDS are akin to food, just as we cease eating when our stomachs are full, we should also limit our NEEDS beyond a certain point to safeguard our well being, as excessive NEEDS can be detrimental !
Inspired by a Punjabi Song !