International Day To Eliminate Violence Against Women !

On this day - International Day To Eliminate Violence Against Women ; lets shift the focus away from discussing men and instead explore about how women are contributing to violence against each other. 



In a MAN'S WORLD or rather in A MALE DOMINATED WORLD - It is not surprising to see how some MEN enjoys ASSERTING THEIR DOMINANCE AND CONTROL OVER FEMALE.
The tendency is particularly noticeable with Diversity, Equity and Inclusion groups which consists of women who are separated ; widowed or divorced. Unfortunately a single unmarried woman like me also belong to the same group.

By delving into DEI Dynamics individuals like me within such groups gain a deeper understanding of challenges at hand. Today i want to share once such challenge which i encountered in 2018 about 6 years ago.

It is important to recognize that certain  MEN may target DEI initiatives as a means to perpetuate their desire for DOMINANCE OVER WOMEN !  Within the DEI group ; Its striking to observe the perception of some women (skin with a storm) - associating such A MALE DOMINANCE AND CONTROL  with a SENSE OF SAFETY AND PROTECTION ! 

THE SITUATION IS BEYOND MY BELIEF. 

By the way these are the qualities of a FEMALE often exploited as TOKENS (skin with a storm) to SYMBOLISE DIVERSITY AND EQUALITY, in  a MALE DOMINATED CORPORATE SETTINGS.

TOKEN represents a MARGINALIZED STATUS OF A WOMEN !
Lets take an example of the QUALITIES of a MARGINALIZED WOMEN !
TOKENS try to cover up their MARGINASED STATUS with GUCCI  / PRADA etc.
The act of SIZING up other women by showcasing  LUXURY BRANDS placing themselves in an IMAGINARY HEIRARCHY based on what they are wearing is very common among TOKENS !

TOKENS are often found in PUBS AND BARS and they are seen singing such songs !
(Although i have not seen this SOUTH INDIA).
"Mein to beghar hu ; apne ghar le chalo 
ghar mein ho mushkil dafter le chalo
tum mujse shaadi karlo mandir le chalo"

In such a scenario it gives an opportunity for MEN to ASSERT their DOMINANCE over women and take charge of all their ACTIONS. To the extent that MEN will relish DIRECTING THEIR ACTIONS including their SEXUAL BEHAVIOR !

MARGINALIZED TOKEN WILL SYMBOLISE DIVERSITY WITH ADVERSITY !
They cannot face ADVERSITY ; They utilize their adversity to gain sympathy ; protection from MEN!

Now PICTURE this : 
With in the DEI Group there is another single unmarried virgin women.
Men will naturally  expect this  single unmarried women to exhibit  same behavior and sing the same song ! CORRECT ?
However if she REJECTS such a PROPOSITION which was put forward by a Dick Head the Testing Asshole ; Dominating men will utilize MARGINALIZED WOMEN - THE TOKENS (Skin with storm) to act aggressively against the single unmarried women on INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY !




Both the women belong to DEI :
Skin with a storm a MARGINALIZED WOMEN who has NO GHAR ; and waiting for MEN to take her to TEMPLE (And)
Another women who is a SINGLE UNMARRIED VIRGIN WOMEN who has her own house !
My home is TAT-TVAM-ASI ; I will decide who will enter my HOME !





Whenever i see this song i remember my Sabarimala Hike with my Father !
My conversation with my Father on the way to Sabarimala Temple at the age of 8 ; to experience TAT-TVAM-ASI !
Me : Acha (Father) ; Why should we wear Black while hiking Sabarimala Hill ?
Acha (Father) : Mole (Daughter) ; BLACK COLOUR represents ADVERSITY ; 
Unless we celebrate and embrace ADVERSITY we cannot experience TAT-TVAM -ASI !
Me : Acha (Father) ; What is Adversity ?
Acha (Father) : Mole (Daughter) ; Adversity is Goddess Lakshmi ;






I want you all to THINK ABOUT IT !
How can we eliminate VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN in the presence of MARGINALIZED TOKENS ?
MARGINALIZED TOKEN = DIVERSITY WHO CANT FACE ADVERSITY who are constantly seeking PROTECTION AND SEX from a MAN !





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