On this DIWALI i want to share with you a study called - BEER GOGGLES EFFECT !
Have you heard of the BEER GOGGLES EFFECT ?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beer_goggles
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beer_goggles
When the BAR is near closing time you feel a SENSE OF SCARCITY ; leaving you with a limited / few options and you start deciding which one is best for you ! This situation is the PRIME EXAMPLE OF SCARCITY MINDSET ! Recall the TOILET PAPER story during the Corona Pandemic in US.
BEER GOGGLES EFFECT is not the study about BEER and TOILET PAPERS - It is about SCARCITY PRINCIPLE where SCARCE BECOMES ATTRACTIVE !
What is Beer Goggles Effect ?
As a female i can comprehend the female perspective better !
A woman who perceives that her BODY, WEALTH, AND INTELLECTUAL SKILLS hold NO VALUE to any MAN may visit BARS to seek partners !
Buying Pseudo security from a male inside the BAR is the WEAKEST WOMAN OF THE WORLD !
She might also engage in the act of SIZING up other woman by showcasing her BOLD DRINKING HABITS placing herself in an IMAGINARY HEIRARCHY based on her FREQUENT BAR VISITS is called SOCIAL JOCKEYING !
My friends - BE CAREFUL on this DIWALI ! Great Opportunity - Do Not Apply !
Empowered woman visit BARS only to celebrate her SUCCESS !
I vividly remember my friend in Japan - Tokyo, who owns a Karaoke Bar known as LIVE NOTE CAFE on Takeshita Street at WORLD's FASHION CAPITAL - Harajuku Tokyo !
My Best Friend in Japan !
I frequently visited his BAR while in Japan ; Drink and Sing !
BAR SCENE did not EMPOWER ME !
What truly EMPOWERED me was my ECONOMIC DEVELOPMENT from having come from a MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY - Today i own a home and i savour drinks in the WORLD'S WEALTHIEST PLACES !
A drink for me means = An Aesthetic which add value to my personality !
I drink to CELEBRATE not to SEEK PARTNERS or to place myself in an IMAGINARY HEIRARCHY !
Iam a Virgin even today - I visit bars only to celebrate and some fun singing and dancing !
People with SCARCITY MINDSET never BLOOM ! They remain inside the BUD !
This reminds me of Richard Bach Illusion !
It is frightening to leave the ground where the caterpillar is safe and enter into a cocoon of UNKNOWN - But when it discovers its capability for FLIGHT - LIFE BECOMES A MAGIC.
Most of the people are unable to discover themselves because they fear HARDSHIP - THE CATERPILLAR PHASE.
When you realize that you are in your ESSENCE ; this understanding will remove the fear based limiting thoughts and help you unfold your AUTHENTIC EXPRESSION.
FOR ME ; PSEUDO SECURITY IS MORE RISKIER THAN THE BLOSSOM INTO THE UNKNOWN.
PROPOSITION = PESUDO SECURITY = REMAINING INSIDE THE BUD UNDER THE PROTECTION OF A MAN which i believe is MORE DANGEROUS THAN BLOOMING !
"A fearless expression or the unfolding of a natural expression just like a BLOOMING FLOWER".
Although I am a virgin, I find myself attracted to men who demonstrate respect for women who have experienced separation or divorce, rather than being drawn to those solely interested in my virginity.
My attraction to such men - coach and change maker is solely based on the respect they exhibit towards the skin with a storm the mummy of 16 year old ; thats the only factor for me.
This aspect of coach and change maker's character intrigued me.
A GRACELESS CONFRONTATION like BITING LIPS does not EMPOWER WOMEN ! Dont be a Gangubai Kathiawadi ! BE THE REAL WOMAN !
A Tune that resonates every BAR in TOKYO !
I still listen to the Song whenever i remember my TOKYO DAYS !
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