Break the Stigma !

To piggyback on my previous post about relationship breakups !
FYI : Iam a single unmarried woman and a virgin meaning I have never had a relationship in the past yet i have helped many of my female friends overcome break ups !

When we think about ABUSE specially in India we have a mindset that it takes place against WOMEN and NOT MEN ! India believes that MEN cannot be a VICTIM !

Today lets BREAK THIS STIGMA !

In retrospect or rather in continuation to my previous post ;

Washroom/Restroom is one of the most INTIMATE places for a women. Women spend more time in the washroom/rest room and hence it eventually becomes a place for women to HANGOUT AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS ! While in Tokyo women's restroom at office was the main place where i made a lot of female friends.

A lot of women step into washroom Puke and Cry about their unwanted pregnancy and how they broke up and wanting to abort the child etc. Many met me at Starbucks following our acquaintance in the washroom.

Many women spoke about Male Privilege - Men find it COOL to insult their partners after BREAK UP. Example : The man tries to expose her PAST in front of others. Exposing to public the places they both have visited and spent time together - this includes even showing bathroom and bedroom etc.

This is UNSAFE for a woman and the main reason for this is THE ABUSER (MAN) wants that "NO ONE ELSE SHOULD WANT HIS X" ; I have helped many women overcome this TRAUMA ; The society has recognized the abuse of women by their ex-male partners.

But the problem is - Society is yet to recognize the abuse of men by their ex-female partners after break up. This is specially TRUE in India.

I have seen women who feel that they are holding all the CARDS !

Flaunting the DOMINATING POWER on the Man showcasing their BATHROOM AND BEDROOM to public ; I wonder what these women are trying to COMMUNICATE AND CONVEY ?

This is UNSAFE for a MAN ! May be what the woman want is "NO ONE ELSE SHOULD WANT HER X" ; The picture of bathroom and bedroom is utilized to damage the MAN'S REPUTATION.

The primary motive behind this is to maintain power and control over the man. Sometimes they deny that you even have the RIGHT TO LEAVE THEM.

Exposing another person is a PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE !

When a woman wants to get separated from a MAN the society label her as an EMPOWERED WOMAN ; But when a man wants to quit a relationship, his very character is being questioned and a dominating woman is capable of damaging the MAN'S REPUTATION.

GENDER EQUALITY = To ensure that neither MEN nor WOMEN become victims of such ABUSE !

Skin with a Storm : You might be getting the money into your BANK ACCOUNT for the services you delivered for 15 years and the law might be supporting you which is why you are in some kind of illusion that every woman charges !

People who have learnt SANSKRIT can understand all LANGUAGES of the world.

Next time when you make such comment on others - Understand that....

What YOU are is what you SEE in OTHERS !