Yes.... Iam also a Believe-in-Values-and-Principles sort of Girl and definitely Priyanka Chopra is my role model.
Women all around the world should have the RIGHT TO CHOOSE the best life for themselves.
There is a tendency to overlook how men's influence can interfere with women's choices. Women often face manipulation in their right to choose, with benefits and privileges frequently skewed in favour of men. Lets take some real examples ;
I want to share the kind of Negotiation Experiences i encountered as a DEI. These experiences were challenging, but they provided important insights into how Men sometimes use economic and also human factors in negotiations.
The first attempt by Men was to negotiate with my IMPREFECTIONS-FLAWS.
Iam a BBM ; MBA ; MA Economics not a SOFTWARE ENGINEER !
Imperfection is a Human Nature ; Nobody is perfect in this world. When you keep a person's Imperfections on the table for negotiation, you are pricing the very human nature.
Dont walk with the WORLD looking for evidence that YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH - Because you are always going to find it.
I denied to Negotiate with my FLAWS.
I felt it was BETRAYAL to MY-SELF to negotiate with my Education.
I know the efforts my Father has put in to Educate Me ;
I was not ready to negotiate with my very HUMAN NATURE !
I recognize that every man reading this post has his own imperfections because, after all, we’re all only human. But have you ever noticed how often men are targeted and bullied for their flaws?
The next attempt made by Men was to negotiate with my net-worth ;
Having a HIGH NETWORTH will not make a woman MORE EMPOWERED !
It is FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE that empowers a woman ; And i believe that Iam Financially Independent.
I denied to Negotiate with my Low Net worth !
I felt that i could make a choice without feeling HELPLESS.
These Men who want to negotiate with my networth have married the daughters of wealthy families, focusing on success. Now, they seek additional sexual pleasures which is something they think can be negotiated with Middle Class Woman; they want to cheat on their legal partners despite them performing traditional rituals for husband's long life.
There’s a woman who took a stand by rejecting her legal husband ; She demonstrated that women, too, can set terms and negotiate their sexual desires, proving that negotiation using economics isn’t solely a male prerogative. Known as "Skin with a Storm," she serves as a role model for these (Biwi.No.1) who are performing rituals for husband's long life.
If you tell me that she (skin with a storm) is on the side of these men ; I would strongly doubt her AUTHENTICITY ; She must be a FAKE.
Yes Iam STUPID ; Iam A Believe In Values sort of a GIRL.
Now lets move to the next level of Negotiation !
I was bullied for my age ; My Menstrual Cycles and Ovaries getting older was kept on the table for negotiation !
Consider Priyanka Chopra, who is married to a man over a decade younger than her. This serves as a powerful reminder that age should not limit women's ability to negotiate and succeed.
Me in 2014 !
If a Male brings Menstrual cycle in the Negotiation ; A woman can bring his sperm count on the table. It's time to show men that women are just as capable of setting terms and negotiating effectively, regardless of age or gender. Negotiation is not the sole domain of men.
Name : Sree Pillai ; Single Unmarried Age : NA Preferred Partner : Male in the age group 25-35 ;
If You are above 40 Conditions Apply - You should have become a Father after 40.
A Recent Father !
K for ?????
Myself RIGHT NOW ! Did you like me ?
If you believe that you are an empowered woman only because you kicked a Man out of your life after 16 years ; then let me tell you i have kicked 16 men out of my life in 16 years without letting them touch even one strand of my hair !
And ;
Between 2018-2024 ; I kicked one man 100 times out of my life proving that woman are not a material to negotiate with.
I am not here to prove that women are just as capable of setting terms like men ;
Iam here to prove that - Negotiations are Never Ending !
Because, None of us are FLAWLESS ; All of us are IMPERFECT !
If you believe that leveraging flaws ; net worth and age can sway the negotiation in your favour, you might be mistaken.
Be whoever you want !
I was cradled by the lullaby of the Arabian Sea before ever hearing my mother's.
With me - Negotiations are never ending.
Let me share a heartfelt story about a dear friend of mine. He has a physical disability that has shaped his journey in profound ways. When we set out to help him find a life partner, we introduced him to several wonderful women who shared similar experiences and physical challenges. Despite their incredible strength and kindness, he struggled to find a match because he dreamed of marrying someone without physical disabilities.
Years went by, and after much effort, we finally found a remarkable woman who was not physically challenged. They married, and today, they have a son who is healthy and thriving.
This story is a gentle reminder that we are not GOD to decide what others deserve. Each person’s journey is unique, and we should let them make their own choices. After all, none of us have the authority to play the role of destiny or judge what someone truly deserves.
If you have liked my Post ; Then you will like this song even more ! Watch on Youtube with subtitles.
Right to Choose is not a reservation made for women with high networth
The same Right is available for a middle class woman like me
The same Right is available for a female sex worker
The same Right is available for a physically challenged woman
Men want to negotiate with the attributes of a woman ignoring the least common denominator that she is a HUMAN in the first place.
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