"But once in a while there's a great dynamite burst of flying glass and brick and splinters through the front wall and somebody stalks over the rubble seizes me by the throat and gently says - " I will not let you go until you set me, in words, on paper". That's how i met ILLUSIONS". Richard Bach !
Richard Bach : One of my Influencers ! You can choose your PAST by CHANGING THE STORY YOU TELL YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR PAST ! TRUST ME ITS ALL ABOUT STORIES !
Past cannot be CHANGED is an Illusion ! For most of the people - the concept of what the world around us is an ILLUSION.
Each one of us are living at the bottom of our life and we are clinging on to the PSEUDO SECURITY. For most of us : CLINGING ONTO THE PSEUDO SECURITY IS THE SAFE ZONE.
The reason behind clinging is that you are afraid of doing something outside your comfort zone.
Let me explain what is Illusion - with special reference to WOMEN who are SEPERATED AND DIVORCED ! To all those who are reading this post - Iam a Single Unmarried woman and my perspective is based on Richard Bach's Illusions !
This post is specially meant for woman who are separated or divorced !
Today i want to help you become THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF !
PSEUDO SECURITY is an ILLUSION.
Illusion is like a MOVIE and is based on TIME. Basically it is like buying a movie ticket in order to get caught up and swept away in ILLUSION minute by minute ; you sit in the Theater and enjoy Illusion that requires TIME to be experienced. So you get the ticket and SETTLE DOWN and forget about THE REALITY !
Let me give you examples :
The foremost thing that causes INSECURITY in a divorced woman is her PHYSICAL LOOKS.
She believes that PROTECTION FROM A MAN COMES IN EXCHANGE OF SEX !
SHE STARTS CHASING SEX AND DATE !
The Question that - How her body will be received by the EXTERNAL WORLD ? is the first INSECURITY. In order to fix this SHE DECIDES TO CLING ONTO PSEUDO SECURITY BY APPLYING OSTRICH ALGORITHM !
Ostriches bury their heads in the sand and imagine that they’re successfully hidden. Metaphorically it means : Ignore the problem, rather than attempting to solve it--this is analogous to how an Ostrich is said to deal with fear (by sticking its head in the sand).
What does this mean ?
1. These woman rarely share pictures of their children on social media - they are afraid of being rejected by their potential partners if they DO SO ! PSEUDO SECURITY. The solution is IGNORE !
2. Constant Validation and compliments about her physical body from her potential partners - Leading to JEALOUSY for other woman ! They do this to hide the fact that they have been fucked multiple times by their partners and mother hood by their children's. The solution is IGNORE !
3. They go on a Vacation with the welfare amount received by their ex-husband but they project like as if they are doing vacation with their hard earned money in an attempt to gain sympathy from the potential partners. EVEN IF SHE IS TRUE - THIS IS LABOUR !
MOST OF THE WOMAN DENY PRESENTING HER CHILDREN ON SOCIAL MEDIA !
But the mother is found all over SOCIAL MEDIA ADJUSTING HER BRA !
Don't Laugh at this STATEMENT - I have seen this on social media and this is REAL !
The only thing worst than being BLIND is A SHORT SIGHTED PRETENCE for ones own BENEFIT.
THINK ABOUT IT : The Corporates are using these women as TOKENS to KEEP UP PUBLIC APPEARANCES to show SUPPORT TO DIVERSITY TO AVOID CRITICISM. TOKENISM is a SYMBOLIC - FAKE EFFORT to INCREASE DIVERSITY. In other words it is all about INCLUDING UNDER REPRESENTED TOKENS to talk about WOMEN EMPOWERMENT.
Do you think : Iam picking up someone else's MISTAKES ? Do you think : Iam Criticizing ? Don you think : Iam Negative ? Let me challenge you - THERE IS A SECRET RECIPE HERE WHICH CAN HELP YOU BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF !
You have to see the Illusion only then you can remove it from your life. If you are old enough to QUESTION and young enough to SEARCH ; then Illusion will find you.
IF YOU CAN SEE THE ILLUSION YOU CAN SHIFT YOUR PERSPECTIVE !
How to become THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF !
BE REAL - BE AUTHENTIC ! STOP CLINGING ONTO PSEUDO SECURITY !
LET IT ALL GO AND SEE WHAT REMAINS ? LET ME CHALLENGE YOU ? What remains is YOUR SOUL - THE DIVINE AND PUREST OF ALL ! TRY THIS - AND YOU WILL GET EVERY THING YOU WANT IN RETURN !
When you let go of this PSEUDO SECURITY the current of LIFE will throw you TUMBLED AND SMASH YOU and you will bleed. Even after bleeding if you REFUSE to CLING on to PSEUDO - THE CURRENT OF LIFE WILL LIFT YOU.
We all should learn to TRUST the CURRENT of LIFE and let go of the PSEUDO SECURITY and let the CURRENT OF LIFE LIFT US FROM THE BOTTOM. You will gain the capacity to let go of the PESUDO SECURITY only if you are TRUE to yourself. Your only OBLIGATION in this LIFE is to be TRUE to yourself.
Women FIT IT INTO NORMAL CURVE for Wealth and Protection. If you can KILL these 2 Materialistic needs - You can EVOKE GODDESS SHAKTI within YOU and find TRUE LOVE !
Goddess Shakti is called as Mahishasura Mardini because she killed a Demon - MAHISHA.
Mahisha = Buffalo ;
Can you see the HORN of the DEMON ?
HORN = DICK ; Left Horn = Wealth ; Right Horn = Protection.
A Man who decorated his head with his DICK is the one who was killed by Goddess Shakti.
SHE IS VAISHNO DEVI !
SO TRUE - SO AGREE - Take a Vacation and do a PILGRIMAGE IN SEARCH OF VAISHNO DEVI !
Once you find her THE WORLD WILL BE AT YOUR FEET !
Each and everyone of you must be wondering - " Why Am I helping that woman to become the BEST VERSION OF HERSELF who has been chasing me from the last 1.5 years ; iam sure she must have been ABUSING - Me ; My Character ; My Dignity - I understood about this stalking only about 6 weeks ago."
The answer is.......
No matter how high our INDIVIDUAL CONSCIOUSNESS is ; ultimately we all are VICTIMS OF COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUNSESS.
FRIDAY MUSINGS :
I want to create a BETTER WORLD around me so that : Every woman has the RIGHT TO CHOSE HER EDUCATION Every woman has the RIGHT TO CHOSE HER CAREER Every woman has the RIGHT TO CHOSE HER MALE PARTNER
Women Empowerment = Provision of choices to woman !
On this path I MIGHT END UP WALKING ALONE ;
It is difficult for any woman to uncling herself from the pseudo security ; they rather prefer to be TOKENS under the protection of MEN.
This POEM that is written by Rabindranath Tagore is dedicated TO INSPIRE All woman who are WALKING ALONE on the path of WOMEN EMPOWERMENT. NEVER GIVE UP !
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