Welcome back friends ;
This whole month and perhaps even next month - I will be writing about WOMEN EMPOWERMENT atleast until March 08 2023.
Have you seen the Movie PINK !
Amitabh Bachchan who plays the role of a criminal lawyer in the movie says -
"NO IS A COMPLETE SENTENCE".
There is a RIVER that is 4 FEET AVERAGE ON DEPTH.
4 FEET = AVERAGE DEPTH.
Would you CROSS a river that is 4 FEET DEEP ON AVERAGE BY WALK OR HIKE.
There are too many rocks in the river and you cannot take a BOAT.
The center could be 10 + / 12+ feet deep ;
LESSON : AVERAGE IS MEANINGLESS.
What is Normal ! Normal = Average !
We try to fit everything into a Normal Curve.
The Question is - IS NORMAL TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE ?
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I BELONG TO THE 0.03%.
MYSELF a Single Unmarried Female Virgin ; I never had a Boyfriend nor I have ever KISSED any Man until date. I belong to an under represented group and others in the group are (Divorced/Separated/Widow).
In Retrospect - Like everybody I received typical sexual advances from interested individuals ; To which when I SAID NO - The Explanation that they gave for my NO was the following...
"I SAID NO BECAUSE IAM LOOKING FOR A BETTER DEAL"
"I SAID NO BECAUSE IAM LOOKING FOR A SEXY BODY"
"I SAID NO BECAUSE IAM LOOKING FOR POWER"
NO IS A REFLEX ACTION.
A REFLEX ACTION IS AN UNCONSCIOUS RESPONSE ; AN UNPLANNED RESPONSE.
I have studied Business Law in my Business Management Course for 7 Years (BBM + MBA + MA). I have not studied CRIMINAL LAW - I studied only COMPANY LAW ; But I could feel how difficult it was for Amitabh to PROVE to the court of law that NO WAS A COMPLETE SENTENCE.
BECAUSE "NO" DID NOT HAVE LOGICAL REASONS - IT WAS A REFLEX ACTION.
In Pursuit of my SEARCH BEHIND NO - I arrived at TAT-TVAM-ASI.
My Grand Father was a Spiritual Practitioner / Travel guide who helped thousands of devotees experience Tat-Tvam-Asi on their Journey to Sabarimala Temple.
My Father who took me to Sabarimala Temple when i was 8 ; Taught me TAT-TVAM-ASI.
TAT-TVAM-ASI = YOU ARE THAT WHICH YOU SEEK !
What iam SEEKING OUTSIDE is already WITHIN ME ?
HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE ?
I remembered about YIN-YANG that i have seen in many Chinese Temples in Singapore.
We all have both Feminine and Masculine Energies within each one of us regardless of our Gender.
I remembered the WABI-SABI SYMBOL that i saw in every Japanese Temple in Japan.
Wabi = Masculine Energy
Sabi = Feminine Energy
Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies creates an ULTIMATE INNER BALANCE !
All of us are in search of that OTHER HALF - ULTIMATE INNER BALANCE.
We SEEK what is WITHIN.
Tat-Tvam-Asi = You are that which you SEEK.
I remembered the Ardha-Nareshwara concept and the COSMIC DANCE of Hinduism that claims that each one of us have both Masculine and Feminine Energies within us.
THE COSMIC DANCE !
Lord Shiva with Goddess Uma as a part of himself.
While Lord Shiva's Blazing eyes expresses 1000 Images and while his red hair is tossing up and down; Goddess Uma's Ornaments and Anklets does not move out of place and her breast does not heave.
I remembered the Organization Behavior - A Subject of the Business Management Course which Talks about CARL-JUNG'S ARCHETYPES which further confirmed me that each one of us have both Masculine and Feminine Energies within us.
Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies creates an ULTIMATE INNER BALANCE !
If you achieve INNER BALANCE then OUTSIDE BALANCE will happen by your CHOICE !
If you do not achieve INNER BALANCE ; THE OUTSIDE BALANCE will be a COMPULSION !
I REALISED IAM BALANCED FROM WITHIN WHICH IS WHY I SAID NO TO THE OUTSIDE BALANCE WHICH WAS COMPULSION.
NO IS A NO ; IT CANNOT BE CHANGED BECAUSE IT IS A REFLEX ACTION.
I dont believe that SKILL AND TALENT can EMPOWER A WOMAN.
Only LAW can EMPOWER A WOMAN.
Last week i introduced you all to TOKENISM.
What is TOKENISM ?
TOKENISM = KEEP UP PUBLIC APPEARANCES to show SUPPORT TO DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION TO AVOID CRITICISM.
AS PER MIT - Tokenism occurs by DEFAULT.
Women from the Minority Group who love to TRADE and enter into a DEAL are TOKENISED and are presented as a REPRESENTATION OF EQUALITY. This is called Male Dominance.
Such women can be called as SUPER WOMAN and they SUPPORT MALE DOMINANCE.
DEALS AND TRADE IS WHAT MAKES A MALE DOMINANT.
SUPER WOMAN = DEAL WOMAN = STORM WITH A SKIN = THE DOUBLE STANDARDS OF PINK.
As a Law Student i want to educate each and every woman who is reading my Blog -
So next time when THE STORM WITH A SKIN is tokenized to REPRESENT INCLUSION ; Ask 4 questions ?
1. How many people constitutes MINORITY ?
2. How many promotions and increments were given to MINORITY ?
3. How long did a MINORITY MEMBER Stay in the system ?
Here comes the SEXY QUESTION ?
4. How many SUPER WOMANS got a chance for an International Business Trip to Cracow - Poland ?
I dedicate this video to each and every woman.
SEARCH FOR YOUR SELF !
THERE IS A SELF BEHIND THE REFLEX ACTION CALLED NO.
YOU ARE THAT WHICH YOU SEEK !
TAT-TVAM-ASI !
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