Alright the post that iam intending to write today comes from the experience that i have gained being and having lived with Americans for more than 6 years.
While in Singapore i got a chance to interact with all kinds of races ; Americans ; Indonesians ; Malay ; Tamil ; Singaporean ; Chinese ; Russians ; Japanese ; British etc. either at office or my rented apartment or close group of friends.
However i closely interacted with Americans during my stay in Japan for 3 years !
This is how i understand Americans FROM MY EXPERIENCE !
However i closely interacted with Americans during my stay in Japan for 3 years !
This is how i understand Americans FROM MY EXPERIENCE !
Back in Japan i wanted to date an American Boy ; we had a couple of lunch together and we finally fixed a date which never happened. The American women in our own group who was married and who also had an extra marital affair with another man secretly followed me and the American boy and she ensured that the DATE WAS BROKEN.
This was a CULTURE SHOCK for me !
Later i understood that this was a TYPICAL DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET which every American have by birth.
Perfectionism creates a SCARCITY MINDSET inside a woman which makes her INSECURE and JEALOUS ! SHE IS NEVER SATISFIED.
Today we will explore how PERFECTIONISM results in SCARCITY MINDSET.
Yes Americans are PERFECTIONIST ! Expressing Genuine Negative Human Behavior is a TABOO in America.
Yes Americans are PERFECTIONIST ! Expressing Genuine Negative Human Behavior is a TABOO in America.
America is a place for REPRESSED PSYCHES where it is DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS GENUINE HUMAN NEGATIVE FEELINGS. You have to be PERFECT AND POSITIVE all the time which creates a SCARCITY MINDSET inside their brains.
In Retrospect :
As per BUDDHISM (ZEN) AND HINDU (ARDHANARESHWARA) PHILOSOPHY ; Both Masculine and Feminine Energy are present within us irrespective of our Gender ; It means none of us are PERFECT !
Masculine Energy = PERFECTION = Nature = Genuine Positive Human Behavior.
Feminine Energy = IMPERFECTION = Forces of Nature = Genuine Negative Human Behavior.
An American Men and Women dont want to accept IMPERFECTIONS.
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In Continuation to the C.G.Jung Quote above - The American woman dont want to be called as a DRAG QUEEN hence they ; PRETEND LIKE EVERYTHING IS GOING GREAT !
By pretending that we are POSITIVE VIBES ALL DAY ; they deny the validity of GENUINE NEGATIVE HUMAN EXPERIENCE !
DANGER ZONE : CAUTION
WHEN YOU CHASE PERFECTION YOU DEVELOP A SCARCITY MINDSET !
Women who are PERFECTIONIST in CAREER suffer from the following :
They believe that ; There are not enough promotion opportunities - Remind people they have what it takes.
They believe that ; There are not enough Jobs ; this is all that we can offer.
As i was reporting to Japanese Heads who themselves hate Americans i never had to encounter with any such work place issues during my stay in Japan.
Let me INTRODUCE you all to AMERICAN DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET in relationships a little more in detail.
PERFECTIONISM believes that - There are not enough partners and opportunities for love and relationships.
PERFECTIONISM believes that - There are not enough partners and opportunities for love and relationships.
There is no doubt that social media plays an important role in all these :
Imagine you put up words like "Treat yourself and enjoy your company" on social media ; The American women/men will not like it - A scarcity mindset breeds resentment ;
These UNFULFILLED SOULS that are DESPERATE - They are the ones who have slept with many bodies yet dont understand the meaning of love and passion.
They may repeat your words (Treat Yourself) it means - YOU BETTER BEHAVE !
HERE THE DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET IS AT PLAY.
THIS IS A TYPICAL DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET of every AMERICAN.
Being a grand daughter of a Spiritual Guide of a Spiritual Center - Sabarimala Temple - I believe that all American men and women should practice celibacy at-least for one month in their life time !
This will help shift perspective from A DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET to AN ABUNDANCE MINDSET !
Do you all know the SECRET of my VIRGINITY ?
It is ABUNDANCE MINDSET !
Scarcity Mindset search for MORE ; While an Abundance Mindset search for FULFILLMENT.
You dont have to lay on your back to catch a man.
You dont have to compete with another woman to win a man.
You dont have to compete with another man to win a woman.
You dont have to turn yourself into a bait to catch a mate.
So perfectionism results in SCARCITY MINDSET. There are NO STANDARDS in SCARCITY MINDSET !
Next time when any American for that matter any Human Being from any race repeat your words like Treat Yourself etc ; Understand it is the Desperate Scarcity Mindset which is at PLAY.
"Remind them of their DESPERATE SCARCITY MINDSET - ENLIGHTEN THEM so that THEY SHAMELESSLY DONT REPEAT YOUR WORDS AGAIN".
REMIND THEM TO SET THEIR STANDARDS !
SELF CARE MATTERS : Women should overcome the SCARCITY OF SELF VALUE !
Trust me ; There is ABUNDANCE !
Help them OVERCOME the scarcity of SELF-VALUE.
PERFECTIONISM fuels a CULTURE where women find RIPPING each other down. In the PERFECTIONIST CULTURE - Women Empowerment remains a DREAM. This is because Men mostly take advantage of women's IMPERFECTIONS.
If you feel the URGE to criticize about other woman remember that your thinking has been shaped by PERFECTIONISM which is a MASCULINE ENERGY. The first person who needs to be EMPOWERED is you !
When she sings - Iam shiny ; (Every women WILL shine)
Baby it is a message of INCLUSION !
There is a room for everyone to be FEELING THEMSELVES - THERE SHOULD BE NO REASON WHY A NEGATIVE FEELING SHOULD BE DENIED !
THE QUESTION IS WHY SHOULD YOU ALWAYS FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE ?
After-all ;
POSITIVITY = Accepting all GENUINE HUMAN EXPERIENCES weather POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE.
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