Relaxed and very Happy !!

Wishing you all a very happy friendship day , today's topic is - "CHOICE"

Have you ever felt that you are facing an unfavorable situation in life and you dont  have a  choice .
I always heard people saying - "I have no choice , so i took MBA. and etc etc etc...and so on."

We make choices everyday - we make a choice to wake up at 6am or 7am and sleep for one more hour.
we make a choice to wear a particular outfit over others
we make a choice to visit temple or visit pub.

One of my friends told me - "I decided to marry Mr.A because i did not have any choice etc etc" and
"You react in a helpless manner "
Even i faced many such situations in my Groom Search and once i told my mother - "I will wait until i find my choice and not settle" . 
This can happen only if you decide to take owner ship of your choices/action.

I was sitting on my journal diary  (i mean my Blog ) and a couple of months ago (April 2018) , i performed "Mrityunjaya Mantra" .
I made a choice to perform Mrityunjaya Mantra.
Some people made fun of me

I was facing an unfavorable situation in life -  fear , stalking , cheating something that almost ruined my life completely and there is no peace .

An unfavorable situation and almost everybody said - "You have no Choice"
Psychology : By the way when you say i have no choice in your mind , your unconscious brain is  still making a choice because it is worried about your safety and haunting circumstance that you could possibly face if you dont accept that choice.

I chose to perform Mrityunjaya Mantra.
I was in trouble and absolutely clueless what i should do ..and the only thing i thought i should do was -"Mrityunjaya Mantra"



Sometimes people dont realize that they have another choice which they like/deserve but the circumstances of that choice might be daunting and haunting , sometimes the circumstances overpower you to the point where life seems to be a series of difficulties and you dont see yourself having any power or choice and you become helpless.
That is when you say - "I took this because i did not have a choice"  This path will lead you to becoming an unhappy  and bitter person 

Alternatively - In life one must learn to take ownership of choices , when you start taking ownership of your choices , you are not afraid of any haunting circumstances.  This path will lead you to happiness , this path will let you live proactively making things happen and results which you want to see.

Never be afraid of taking the ownership of your choices
Nothing will change unless you take ownership of what is happening in your life






I chose to Chant Om Namah Shivaya 108 times
If you need some peace in life , however bad you think your life is , meditation will help
Dont feel scared that you will fail .




Very often people complain they are here because they did not have any choice ,
And then take the trouble to dress well and put on that extra load of makeup even though sometimes when you are sad . They complain without doing anything about it , because their unconscious brain will warn them of the haunting circumstance and they decide to accept choices that others make for you , definitely nobody is aware of who you are other than you ?
My advise to you all is - "You cant change cards , but you can change how you play them"
I studied Business and Finance (Risk Analytics ) in my graduation and post graduation -It was my choice
I chose a career in Analytics and decided for pursue a career in Business Insights and Analysis -Its my choice.
I switched from  MSC Mathematics to MA Economics  recently - Its my choice .


Yesterday is history and tomorrow is mystery
and we live in the present - like iam scribbling away and typing my Blog on my laptop

Yesterday..
Dont ever be victimized by your situation , try to gain power over life circumstance
If you start thinking that you have no choice over your situation , that situation will never change?
You will continue to be a person who is powerless over your life circumstances and your unconscious brain will continue to haunt you of the dangers of these circumstances that can make you chose something that you dont like and then complain about it.



Iam feeling relaxed and very happy today.
Whatever i did in the past were all my choices , i accepted the responsibility of my life for everything that happened , irresponsibility is when you take credit of someone else's work to feed your family.
IAM A RESPONSIBLE WOMEN.

Almost after 5 months , iam happy from the bottom of my heart .
I rose above the constraints and difficulties to create what i want. Things will slowly shape the way i want , because i know what is right and what is wrong .






Today's lesson: It is always the Choice and that is the Brutal truth .

However difficult life may seem , you will always have a choice.
Only by accepting the responsibility of your choice , you can finally progress towards what you want in life.


Listen to this song , which most of the MLA's play during their election campaign to win votes , but they never fulfill their promises. 



Its always your choice , is it possible for us to become like one of the above...why dont we take positives vibes from the movies we watch? Empathy is important for becoming a good person
It is easy to take the credit of others work in order to feed your family and that is exactly what your unconcious brain will teach you . It is your choice.

Its always your choice all day and everyday.



Its your choice to wear a saree and keep adjusting whole day or wear a shorts. lol..



You can be a sun and shine bringing light into other's lives or you can be a Dementor and take away all the energy from everyone and remain lifeless. It is your choice.

You can be a Demontor and suck on a person's soul with the help of your title and position and leave them dead  , and yes it can be more easy with a single women lol..
But it is not title that can make you powerful , it is all about the power you gain over your life circumstance that makes you really powerful.



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