Let me start with a question ! Have you ever felt that your mother loves your brother or sister more than you ? I know its a difficult question to answer ! Love cannot be quantified , if it was easy for us to measure the maximum , minimum , mean or median of love then it would have been easier for us to answer such questions !
love unlike is very subjective ......this article is all about love .......
Let me first answer the question !
I would say its father , your mother loves your father more than anybody else in the world! Let me put it this way a woman cannot love anyone more than her husband ? I have no comment on this as i have never understood this concept may be bacause iam still single and thats why i dont understand this concept , and trying some research and development on this concept is a waste of time !
As a kid i always thought that im my Father's favourite daughter , he answered my every little question where ?why ? how ? when? Even today i ask him questions where is he ? why does he not fight with me? why cant he hear me? They say he is with me ? but i ask him where are you ? Why does It always rain only on me ? yes he answers all my questions even today!
My mother is a good cook she cooked everything that i liked aviyal , morecurry , pavakka toran, pappadam , kadumangha! and achangya payar my fav...... I always felt iam her favourite Daughter , why should she cook my favourite food everyday ! I always had one of my favourite dish at the dinner table almost everyday ah.... mom loves me so much !
October 22 2008 ..fateful day , my father met with a road accident and was in ICU ....I stood outside the ICU they never allowed me to go inside it was 4.30 pm evening .. fighting against my tears i felt like i lost the whole world when the doctors told so rudely that they are helpless! I felt like fighting with them! I went inside the ICU ...did not obey doctors and nurses...since then i was in ICU , except for sometime i had gone out to pharmacy to buy medicines for him...
It was midnight 2.30 am 23 rd october! I stood next to his bed , that was the death bed no more needles , no more blood transfusions ,no more medicines ... no more tests !
There was an oxygen machine pumping purified air through transparent tubes clipped to the end of his nose. Nobody had the courage to see him die ,he could not see , speak or hear anything he was unconcious i stood there expecting a miracle to happen .....but nothing happened Only silence. No breath , the person i loved the most in the world was no more , i touched his feet , cheek , hands , fingers , he never responded!
I could not see my mother , she had cried enough and could not even cry now!
Every one should die one day , why cant i die now!
Two weeks later we got back to work ! They say life should go on......
Almost for six months i never got to eat my favourite food !
It was then i realized my father's favourite was also my favourite ! I was scared to ask my mom "i want pappadam" i thought if i had asked she will remember father i kept quiet ! Now i know the reason why one of my favourite dishes was always present at the dinner table,however it does not mean my mother does not love me!
I started having food which i never liked brinjal.................i just hate .
It took some time for mom to realise that everything that my father liked was also my favourite ! It does not mean that my mom does not love me........She is everything to me .....perhaps now the only god i can see..on this Earth
I still see her crying alone !
I understand Mothers love father more than anyone else in the World !
Thats the theory of life !
But there is another theory in my life which is different from everybody's life i cannot love any man more than my father ! My mom might have loved my father more than my grand father , but i would never love any man more than my father,because my dad was hero there is no man like him in the world and perhaps thats why my mom loved him so much !
love unlike is very subjective ......this article is all about love .......
Let me first answer the question !
I would say its father , your mother loves your father more than anybody else in the world! Let me put it this way a woman cannot love anyone more than her husband ? I have no comment on this as i have never understood this concept may be bacause iam still single and thats why i dont understand this concept , and trying some research and development on this concept is a waste of time !
As a kid i always thought that im my Father's favourite daughter , he answered my every little question where ?why ? how ? when? Even today i ask him questions where is he ? why does he not fight with me? why cant he hear me? They say he is with me ? but i ask him where are you ? Why does It always rain only on me ? yes he answers all my questions even today!
My mother is a good cook she cooked everything that i liked aviyal , morecurry , pavakka toran, pappadam , kadumangha! and achangya payar my fav...... I always felt iam her favourite Daughter , why should she cook my favourite food everyday ! I always had one of my favourite dish at the dinner table almost everyday ah.... mom loves me so much !
October 22 2008 ..fateful day , my father met with a road accident and was in ICU ....I stood outside the ICU they never allowed me to go inside it was 4.30 pm evening .. fighting against my tears i felt like i lost the whole world when the doctors told so rudely that they are helpless! I felt like fighting with them! I went inside the ICU ...did not obey doctors and nurses...since then i was in ICU , except for sometime i had gone out to pharmacy to buy medicines for him...
It was midnight 2.30 am 23 rd october! I stood next to his bed , that was the death bed no more needles , no more blood transfusions ,no more medicines ... no more tests !
There was an oxygen machine pumping purified air through transparent tubes clipped to the end of his nose. Nobody had the courage to see him die ,he could not see , speak or hear anything he was unconcious i stood there expecting a miracle to happen .....but nothing happened Only silence. No breath , the person i loved the most in the world was no more , i touched his feet , cheek , hands , fingers , he never responded!
I could not see my mother , she had cried enough and could not even cry now!
Every one should die one day , why cant i die now!
Two weeks later we got back to work ! They say life should go on......
Almost for six months i never got to eat my favourite food !
It was then i realized my father's favourite was also my favourite ! I was scared to ask my mom "i want pappadam" i thought if i had asked she will remember father i kept quiet ! Now i know the reason why one of my favourite dishes was always present at the dinner table,however it does not mean my mother does not love me!
I started having food which i never liked brinjal.................i just hate .
It took some time for mom to realise that everything that my father liked was also my favourite ! It does not mean that my mom does not love me........She is everything to me .....perhaps now the only god i can see..on this Earth
I still see her crying alone !
I understand Mothers love father more than anyone else in the World !
Thats the theory of life !
But there is another theory in my life which is different from everybody's life i cannot love any man more than my father ! My mom might have loved my father more than my grand father , but i would never love any man more than my father,because my dad was hero there is no man like him in the world and perhaps thats why my mom loved him so much !
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